Then why the overwhelming success of the marriage amendments?
You're actually in a tiny minority, and haven't even begun to see the pushback that is coming as you try harder and harder to push this crap down the throats of the American people.
The states are where this kind of thing belongs, imo. (Notice how I am answering your question. It's conservative to answer questions). 27 states have amendments - Four or five states have laws favorable to gays - or civil unions or domestic partnerships. I suspect that NY state will join them this year.
The states will do their own things. That's neat.
Doesn't mean that homosexuals are not in the public square. They ARE in the public square. And they are there to stay.