Of course, I could have been really, really, really, outstandingly near-death drunk.
No one posting here knows whether this child was conceived via artificial insemination or the old fashioned way. If the child was conceived the old fashioned way, no one on this board knows whether the father will be involved in the child's life or not.
If the child was conceived via artificial insemination, no one here still knows whether the donor will be involved in the child's life or not either.
I'm sure no one here thinks that a woman is automatically doing her child harm if the natural father was killed defending our freedom in Iraq and the widow and mother chose not to remarry.