Big Government wasn't shoving anything down your throat, it was stopping you from preventing another person from using his own property in a legal manner. Same thing as if the anti-trans-fat people wanted to stop a Burger King from opening--their morality is not a trump card, even if it might have been in the majority in this neighborhood. The punchline is that the good old capitalist system worked where the morality police couldn't.
Maragine and live sex shows have nothing in common.