She is extremely selfish.
1: She will be bearing a child out of wedlock.
2: She will be raising a child in an unwholesome environment, with another woman. There will be no father figure.
3: She was likely responsible for destroying embryos.
Not to mention the anguish she is causing for her mother and father...
You are not Mary's Mother or Father. So you have no idea if she is causing any anguish on them. You are not them so you have no idea what they are thinking or feeling about this.