Please tell me how I could have given any indication of that prior to you asking me what I did yesterday?
Did it occur to you that if you hadn't smarted off to me FIRST and addressed me when I didn't say word one to you
You posted a vanity thread and in doing so you addressed the entire forum. Did you think you could pick and choose who responded to you?
You started it!
Jesus Christ, you have got to be kidding me. Please tell me you are.
Seriously, this is absurd. Yes, I did just go to the funeral home yesterday and then the funeral today as they prepared to bury this little boy. I watched my daughter and everyone of her classmates struggle to hold it together and fail miserably. I waited to see my daughter afterward because I had the most wrenching and terrifying need to touch her and hold her. I watched his 2 year old baby sister tell people he was sleeping, knowing this baby will probably not remember her big brother. I watched his mother get up in Mass and read letters she had written to him as baby. I watched and witnessed and felt grief at it's most gutteral and deepest point possible.
And then there's you. You with the bold letters and caps and temper tantrums of someone so self-absorbed it scares me. Each and every person I saw today held themselves higher and with more dignity and courage than you apparently have in your little finger. Grow up doesn't even come close.
I don't know you maybe could have said you went to a funeral for a 12 year old, and told me that without CURSING AT ME and BEING A SMART MOUTH JUST BECAUSE I'M SPEAKING MY MIND!!! I would have promptly said how sorry I was to hear that. ANd I am sorry. 12 is so young. Your reaction was way out of line. I had no way of knowing that and you know it.