"I wouldn't want to speak for all anti's any more than I'd want to speak for all smokers."
Yes, but I can almost garuntee that all anti's are nasty, because not all non-smokers are antis. That is the distinction, much like the loony liberals or DUers. They make an effort to categorize themselves. With smokers, there are folks of all stripes, just like the general population.
I realize that a lot of research supports that statistically.
Though in my personal experiences, smokers have SEEMED to me to have a lot more in common than any other similar large group of people. Haven't seen research to support that. Bet I could design some that would. But I have plenty other stuff to do. LOL.