You should really re-read this thread, then tell us which side was using "all manner of fierce, harsh, abusive "weapons." That human beings utilize their fight or flight instincts should not be a surprise to you.
Exactly what you deplore is what the anti-smokers have used on this thread. Re-read it with fresh eyes.
I also expect those of you that have dished it out to be able to take it. There is clear evidence in this thread that proves who can take it and who couldn't. Just look at the banning. That wouldn't occur without a bit of tattling.
Well, dear heart, I have only "tattled" twice in what . . . 8+ years. Once was a fiercely lewd and harshly foul worded troll that was banned I guess multiple times or some such and had just appeared again or the first time in a most horrible way and I happened to be one of the first upon his post. The other time was something about as bad but I forget the specifics. Both were years ago.
On the other hand, I've been the target of the harshest abuse rather routinely and chronically REGARDLESS of how gentle my words and tones. Some folks just do not want to read ideas which challenge their ideas and values and erupt horribly when they do. I don't consider that my problem, really.