I'm sorry. It doesn't appear that I am getting anywhere...and, in the meantime, my friend is still suspended. :(
I was not around to see Toby's comments, and I can only assume that they were very offensive. That said, no one has ever been able to explain to me how the attacking anti's get away with all sorts of stuff, to include taking the Lord's name in vein, then they don't get admonished. I have yet to understand how they get away with it.
I suppose it is not allowed to respond in kind when one feels personally attacked on these threads. I would inquire directly to the mods, but I don't want to end up banned myself....