The time to think about it is before it happens. In a panic situation, you're lucky if you can think about things you've already analyzed at length, much less try to come up with ideas out of thin air. We all need to think about how we should react in these situations.
Exactly
I sit here and cry as I think of all the times I have taken the back roads in Lebanon and Lancaster on my way home just to see the kids and wave back to them as they waved to me.
I have never met a sad Amish child.
Oh Mary conceived without sin pray for their families and cuddle their children in heaven.