Your premise is wrong, incorrect, and wrong again. Unless and until you are willing to see that the President Lincoln committed an unconstitutional act by warring against the South, we have nothing further to discuss, for this act alone, totally nullifies all the silly arguments. And, since you have already stated your repulsion towards the C.S.A., I'm guessing that we have nothing further to discuss.
So, buh...bye...
Evil Cohort Non-Sequitur reporting, ma'am. I for one will be more than happy to admit all that you have claimed, if first you can present to me a competent authority that ruled Lincoln's acts unconstitutional.
Sorry - you are over a hundred years too late. There IS no C.S.A. - there is only the U.S.A.
That's what the war was about and your side lost - 140 years ago. Now get over it.