You mean The United States side vs the confederate side don't you. You have more loyalty to a failed and dead rebellion then to the country where you were born.
That's really sad for someone that swore their loyalty to the United States as an Officer and a gentleman to say.
my FIRST loyalty is to Almighty God, then to my family,then to my "comrades in arms (with whom i served), then to tribe, then to state & then to the country.
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