Your comparison is ridiculous. The Confederate Government was NOTHING lke the German/Nazis. If you are trying to be insulting, then you have succeeded. Robert E. Lee felt that loyalty to one's state was paramount, and so do I.
"Psychopaths, Murderers" etc, ? You seriously need to study some real history, and not the propaganda you are spouting.
Lee supervised the torture of slaves freed by the will of his father in law. Lee wanted to keep the slaves captive for the longest period that he could.
Lee's overseer refused to punish the slaves. Lee hired a magistrate to whip them properly, and then has their wounds covered with brine.
Psychopath pretty much describes it.
At Fort Pillow, some 300 Union soldiers were murdered after surrender by southern soldiers under the command of Bedford Forrest.
Murders.
Your statement that loyalty to home is the highest form of loyalty is ridiculous, and worse.
If that statement of yours was true, the brave young man who supported law, morality, justice, humanity, and culture against the murdering Nazis was wrong to do so.
That is where your statement leads. I don't wonder that you are offended that you would be capable of such evil. I would hope that you wouldn't be.