Who is making the big deal out of it?
It seems to me that you are.
You've made a lot more comments on this thread than I have.
I would not care if homosexuals attended this function as private individuals, without rainbow emblems, without any political devices, announcements, plans, en masse attendance, etc.
Since that is not the case, I care, because I care about the promotion of homosexuality as normal and natural when it is neither.