So, gays are just like heterosexuals -- they just happen to prefer people of the same sex. Is that what you'd have us believe?
I have no idea what comprises the psychological makeup of the average homosexual, but my feeling is neither do you.
Someone who is gay but otherwise a productive member of society shouldn't suffer the loss of a job, etc because they get excited by members of the same sex.
Their sex life is none of your business. Victimizing people because of their sexual taste alienates you from most people, and won't alienate gays from most people.
Just let them be and craft smart public policy around things worth fighting. A posture that seeks to stigmatize or victimize gays is a loser.
If you had any clarity you would understand that.