btw, I already made it perfectly clear that I am as much a purist when it comes to extramarital sex as anyone alive. My husband and I married in our late twenties and had 'saved ourselves' for each other (not all that easy in the '60's and '70's). We have raised four children to adulthood in purity and morality. It is a high priority for us all.
They even made the choice not to date, to make sure that they weren't tempted in this foul, putrid world, to do something they would later regret.
But that has NOTHING to do with my admiration for this young man who corrected his behavior and straightened up. The two things have nothing to do with each other, and your twisting them to make some sordid connection just stinks.
I hate it when people who call themselves Christians deliberately offend as you just did. And I wonder why anyone who names the Name of Jesus Christ would do so.
I'm sorry we see things differently but I'm not sorry for my opinion. It's just that - my opinion and I'm sorry you got so upset about it.