It is not possible for a man to enter a legally equitable relationship with a woman. Married men are 2nd class citizens and men married with kids are little more than serfs. I.E. no real claim on their future labor or even the custody and upbringing of their children.
That is an opinion, and a very anti-marriage, anti wife opinion, in my opinion.
While I sympathize with men being torn from their children because of those who abuse the system - I've seen many women experience the same at the hands of the same courts.
However, I refuse to broadbrush either with the same brush, because as was said earlier - it happens both ways.
It happens a hell of alot more one way than it does the other. Women, standing the most to gain, initiate divorces at a rate far higher than men and they are granted custody in the overwhelming majority of cases. Hell, in California, boys statutorily raped by women are forced to pay child support. Show me an example of a teenage girl paying child support to an adult male rapist.