and my point is that anyone following this case undoubtedly has gotten that message already. it has made every parent hearing it, more aware of the dangers facing their children at home and abroad. but judgmentalism doesn't reflect well on anyone.
Oh, but endless specualtion and accusations DO reflect well on anyone? There have been some of the wildest things posted on this topic, many with no basis in fact. I ignore those for the most part, just as you are free to ignore my posts.