My two daughters are the classic good girls..happily for them and me..I used to joke that I had the only pair of 20 year old plus virgins in Westchester County..when they were in HS and college..thay had a nice circle of friends..did everythign together..travelled a lot..and always looked out for ewach other...and if any one of those girls, while they wree all out somewheres together, had disappeared for a hour...they others would all have been calling the cops, the Marines,a nd every parent immediately. It's how they all were raised. Again, I'm NOT judging Natalie..merely saying that what we've been told does NOT jibe with what the events seem to indicate..
From what I've read, Natalee's best friends were not on this trip. This was a very large class trip and I think that's different. The other problem is that we've heard differing stories. So it's hard to tell what to believe.
Be proud of your girls! They sound great.