[over3Owithabrain]

I just don't get it why we have to keep blaming the victim in these gut-wrenching cases

I didn't. But it can be helpful, and preventive maintenance for others, to learn something from bad events. Walking home alone in the dark at night through a bad neighborhood doesn't mean you're being blamed if something bad happens and it's pointed out you used bad judgment. Ditto here.

[Rippersnapper]

But it can be helpful, and preventive maintenance for others, to learn something from bad events. Walking home alone in the dark at night through a bad neighborhood doesn't mean you're being blamed if something bad happens and it's pointed out you used bad judgment. Ditto here.

Agree 100%.