Preach it, sista! Though, I am stil surprised to see how many people stay in marriages where they've 'settled', simply becuase its either comfortable, or, they don't want to disappoint their families or loved ones. Talk about a self imposed prison. If you're heart isn't in your marriage, your mind won't be either. And when you settle, you'll always wonder what if.
That what if? is a bi**h LOL...