Consider your actions.
IF you truly wouldn't mind your spouse in exactly the same situation, it's probably not cheatin'.
Further, if it's something you don't want to let your spouse know about, it probably IS cheatin'.
P.S. If I were married, I wouldn't feel comfortable with my spouse chatting on the 'puter, one-on-one, with another woman. I believe it opens the door to compromise.
Lead us not into temptation.
Lead us not into temptation.
That is all around us 24/7 you need self control...
Jealousy from insecure partners cause a spouse from engaging into friendships with the opposite sex.
My husband travels most of the time 5 days a week from state to state it would really be easy for him to fool around or for that matter *me* but we choose not to and choose not to worry about it, if I had to worry about him sleeping around I wouldn't bother staying in the marraige.