It's not what I want, it's just trying to encourage an atmosphere of friendly discussion. You can disagree with me and I can disagree with you, but I will not call your opinion asinine. Isn't it akin to calling someone's thought "stupid?" I really don't like the way some posts contain hostility. Aren't FReepers on the same team?
However, I might just respond that my suggestion was stupid and perhaps idiotic, but never reached the level of asinine.
You might then counter that my idea was clearly idiotic, and if I'd agree that it was also outrageous, the conversation could end peacefully.