Your idea of "fair" relies on the illegal aliens going home either voluntarily, or being sent home by force, which puts us right back where we are right now.
Your think that we should enact some sort of immigration reform which satisfies you emotionally, but can't be really enforced, nor will it be effective.
In fact, it has the possibilities of having disastrous effects on the nation.
They are here already, tens of millions of them according to you.
Why in the hell would they get up and walk away from what they have built since they managed to get into the country and get work, to go back to the country they fled because they couldn't make a decent living there?
You think that their motivation to do that is the possibility of being admitted back into the USA so that they can start all over again, no job, no house, no guarantee that they can even get back here?
The vast majority of them won't do it.
So then, we are left right back at square one...remove them by force, regardless of whatever impact it may have on society, our civil rights, and our economy.
All that, just to satisfy your irrational emotional needs.
You have no plan at all, you are actually an impediment to any plan that has a chance of working.
Ten --- fifteen years ago -- even less --- these people had jobs and homes in Mexico. And the fact they can't make it one of the world's wealthiest nations is what needs to change. We can't just keep absorbing all of Mexico's huge and growing social problems. Mexico has to reform --- and telling them they don't control our immigration laws and the border will be controlled is actually the best way to make that happen. Like I've said over and over --- there is no excuse whatsoever that all prosperity ends when you come to a thin river.