Are you couseling me now? Go back to As Guard; that looks like a full time job.
I'm making a special plea for everyone to step back, to think of each other as brothers and sisters in Christ and try to be nicer to each other.
I am also thoughtless and can be cutting, too. We all need to take a moment to edit what we say to each other.
asgardshill knows from our personal private discussions that I think he is pretty hardheaded about this also.