See I dont' think there is any NEED for an excuse.
This is ALL FINE AND GOOD if you ask me
You are the one looking to make an 'exucse' for them, since you obviously NEED one.
This is ALL FINE AND GOOD if you ask me
But I did not ask you and when I want your opinion I'll give it to you.
It's rather obvious that you have never served in the military.
This kind of crap is contrary to good order and discipline, especially since it involved fraternization between noncommissioned officers and subordinates.