I find it perfectly acceptable for off-duty personnel RISKING THEIR LIVES FOR HOLIER-THAN-THOU, UNGRATEFUL SNOBS critiquing them from their comfy living rooms.
My husband risked his life in the Air Force in Viet Nam and he doesn't believe this type of behavior is becoming to the military, either. If they want to behave like wild animals, they could have stayed in the US and gone to a liberal college. No one forced them to take the oath in the military. If you believe this sort of behavior is appropriate in the military, and you would condone that behavior out of your daughters, then I feel sorry for your daughters.
Amen. I don't understand some people of this site. We send these soldiers to kill people and break things, then get upset they don't act like angels when off-duty.