Since the Union was all the states which composed it the Slavers tried to destroy it through insurrection.
Since, according to Madison, once a state entered the Union it was forever attempting to leave was a violation of the Constitution thus the Slavers tried to destroy the Constitution.
Slavers loved slavery since their well being was tied to it. I am sorry to hear you are in a loveless marriage that may explain many things.
Personally I wish daily my late wife was still here since I loved her more than life itself.
False premise. The Southerners (you can stop calling them "slavers" now, unless you mean the planter class) didn't destroy the Union -- they just left it. Different concept entirely.
The American Colonies didn't destroy the British Empire by throwing off their allegiance to King George III, either. You're just trying to pretend the Southerners did something vicious and unconscionable to the other People in the Union. They didn't -- it's a false charge.