Why would I want to quote twenty lines when I can sum it up in a couple of words? I don't believe more verbiage is always superior as do you.
Laurens was the best friend Hamilton ever had and he loved him but not in the manner of the queer. There is nothing "gay" in queerness quite the opposite thus I don't use the vocabulary of my enemies.
The were just practicing Blue State Culture as defined and advocated by ftD. Not that there's anything wrong with that.