" We should have taken Fallujah 3 weeks ago. THEN we would have been well underway to Iraqization of the situation.
"No linkage at all, taking Falluja would/will mean nothing regarding Iraquization. Iraqi responsibility for Iraqi conditions is THEIR thing, not ours. However, 'taking' Fallujah might be more appropriate in light of this double cross.
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"But first you have to send the message that WE WON and THEY LOST."
And there, I hope that our side determines that the appropriate response is (a) from the air, (b) devastating, (c) without appology or second thoughts, and, (d) with minimal casualties on our side.
Sound OK to you?