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Does that baby make the decision to be adopted out? Do you know any adopted people today? Do you realize that not all people are happy or well adjusted after being adopted out? Have you thought about the life a person leads after adopting out a baby? Do you know any of them? Again you try to dictate what YOU think is right to others removing their choice, their ability to choose their own way.

I dismiss your premis of murder in the same way I have several times now. One cannot kill what does not yet live. By live, i do mean without a host.

You may indeed feel that adoption is a better alternative....and for some mothers and some babies you are 100% right....but see that does not make you 100% right all the time. Not all people adjust to finding out they are adopted and for one of my best friends, it was a leading contributer to his depression and eventual submission to crack and heroine trying to escape the pain of years and years of struggling with "WHY?". Take notice here friend, YOUR solution may avoid what you call murder, but I will argue that my friend has lived a lifetime of pain, distress, and undue punishment by someone that made what you call a "good" decision. You can call it drivel all you want pal....but it is obvious that you are on the outside looking in and wish to impose what you claim is "right".
Adoption may be right for some people but it was not right for my friend...not by a long shot.....as he sits unproductive fryed and wasting away. Yeah that was a good decision for him huh?

You go ahead and dismiss my posts. That is fine. It shows that the only option you pose is your sides ideology and that you are incapable of adult comprimise. You friend, are part of the problem. And IF you actually want to remove the right to choose ones own way thru life, you are indeed anti american at heart.