He was sure that we had irreconcilable differences..what we found was near perfect agreement on them.
To us (Calvinists) this is not a small matter. It is about being God honoring and giving Him all the glory to which He is entitled .It is not about the last word it is about the purity of the gospel . God is God and Man is man. He owes us nothing, if one says that God had no choice in the matter..man had to or has to choose Him..it is no longer grace or mercy ..
If you call what you are doing "bringing glory to God," I am absolute shocked. God must weep.