Posted on 05/09/2017 11:20:14 AM PDT by BJ1
“Except he didn’t. His statement was conditional, and to say “we are to be married” is unconditional.”
Haha, it is wording at play here, as I don’t believe we disagree. Yes, it is we are ‘to be married’ followed by an IF-THEN. In one case, ‘yes do get married’ and in the other ‘great job, abstain’.
Sorry I lumped you in with the other comments. I missed the word ‘ordered us’ in the first post. I do see what you are saying and agree it is not some odd requirement we are forced into. If that was true, then I’d be at fault too ;)
>>So, who is brainwashing them? Who is demoralizing them?
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> The same folks responsible for your reading comprehension skills?
There’s nothing wrong with my reading-comprehension skills, which were taught to me via my parents and not any school-system.
These questions are generally not because I don’t understand what you’re saying, but because you are making implications some of which, if exposed, undermine your own arguments or claims. (ie Socratic method.)
Socratic method, also known as maieutics, method of elenchus, elenctic method, or Socratic debate, is a form of cooperative argumentative dialogue between individuals, based on asking and answering questions to stimulate critical thinking and to draw out ideas and underlying presumptions. It is a dialectical method, often involving a discussion in which the defense of one point of view is questioned; one participant may lead another to contradict themselves in some way, thus weakening the defender’s point. — Wikipedia
>> Um, ever hear of risk/benefit analysis?
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> “OUR LIVES, OUR FORTUNES, AND OUR SACRED HONOR”
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> America’s founders weren’t risk analyzing poosies.
And you’re saying that, in general, American/secular woman are worth a man’s life, fortune, and sacred honor?
Because with the courts the way they are, a woman can make a false rape charge and get away with it, thus damaging his honor.
As the courts are, the woman can take a man’s fortune, even continuing onward for the rest of his life via alimony. (ref: umgud and 20k/yr in post #19)
And it’s a fairly well-known fact that suicide rates are relatively high for divorced men. — http://mensdivorce.com/suicide-rates-high-divorced-men/
Yawn. Which progressive New Mexico rock did you slither out from under?
RTFM and follow the instructions or suffer the cultural due penalties. It’s not that complicated.
“In the context of the social order prescribed for humanity, it’s not surprising you’re unable/unwilling to articulate the difference between permission and forgiveness.”
Of course it’s not surprising, you were trying to bait an entirely different poster with that question and apparently can’t be bothered to keep track of who you are posting to.
I didn’t lose track of who I was posting to.
As you’ve demonstrated - you can’t answer the question either.
Why is that?
Oh, come on, man! Girls these days are the best trucker-looking, beer-gutted, loser sluts any generation has been able to “hook up” with!
> Yawn. Which progressive New Mexico rock did you slither out from under?
LOL — That’s funny, because I might be even less ‘progressive’ than you.
> RTFM and follow the instructions or suffer the cultural due penalties. It’s not that complicated.
I never said not to read it, I never said not to follow it — but you, sir, have gone out of your way to ascribe bad faith and and insult not only me, but a whole generation as well. — Perhaps you should read James 3 & 4:11-12.
>>That’s funny, because I might be even less ‘progressive’ than you.
Yeah, and Unicorns might fart magic glitter dust.
NO SALE.
Perhaps you should read James 3 & 4:11-12.
>>Perhaps you should read James 3 & 4:11-12.
Perhaps the generation of “risk analyzing”, metrosexualized, gender fluidly trembling melleniawoosies should consider who indoctrinated them onto the path of cultural suicide that their hedonistic, non-marrying, sociobiologically unfit ilk would put this Republic on.
It wasn’t me.
> Perhaps the generation of “risk analyzing”, metrosexualized, gender fluidly trembling melleniawoosies should consider who indoctrinated them onto the path of cultural suicide that their hedonistic, non-marrying, sociobiologically unfit ilk would put this Republic on.
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> It wasn’t me.
Let me turn the very arguments you’ve been using to denigrate that generation to your own generation:
Who put them on this path? The federal government that you’ve been involved in by your very votes for more than 30-years.
By your generation’s acquiescence to allowing that government to usurp authorities not rightfully its own; by its disregard for the strictures of the Constitution; by its abject *FAILURE* to reign unjust judges (to include the Supreme Court); by it’s acceptance of no-fault divorce (which *DIRECTLY* led to the current popular usage); by its embrace of feminism (which has made a large portion womenfolk in this country toxic; which defames & slanders motherhood and everything feminine); and by the children you’ve raised and how you’ve raised them, to include an abject and utter failure to DISCIPLE and train them, your generation is certainly responsible! — No, sir, you are NOT blameless here.
My parents were married over 50 years - as were the parents of many of my friends in the extended LEO family I grew up in.
Guess your quivering peers didn’t have those sort of role models.
The decisions you make determine your character - DEAL WITH IT.
> My parents were married over 50 years - as were the parents of many of my friends in the extended LEO family I grew up in.
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> Guess your quivering peers didn’t have those sort of role models.
That, then, would be YOUR generation that failed to BE those sorts of role models.
You have affirmed the accusation.
> The decisions you make determine your character - DEAL WITH IT.
As do your actions your own character.
Proverbs 14:31
Those who oppress the poor insult their Maker, but those who are kind to the needy honor him.
Matthew 18:23-35 -— (The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant)
“For this reason the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his slaves. When he began the reckoning, one who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him; and, as he could not pay, his lord ordered him to be sold, together with his wife and children and all his possessions, and payment to be made. So the slave fell on his knees before him, saying, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ And out of pity for him, the lord of that slave released him and forgave him the debt. But that same slave, as he went out, came upon one of his fellow slaves who owed him a hundred denarii; and seizing him by the throat, he said, ‘Pay what you owe.’ Then his fellow slave fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you.’ But he refused; then he went and threw him into prison until he would pay the debt. When his fellow slaves saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their lord all that had taken place. Then his lord summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked slave! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. Should you not have had mercy on your fellow slave, as I had mercy on you?’ And in anger his lord handed him over to be tortured until he would pay his entire debt. So my heavenly Father will also do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
I’ve seen nothing in you of compassion, or encouragement, or kindness towards the millennials, even though you are quick to find fault, exposing their [morally/spiritually] poor nature and proclaiming your own [self-]righteousness; why do you insult God? Why do you fail to show the very mercy you have been shown?
>>then, would be YOUR generation that failed to BE those sorts of role models.
Nope. It’s quite common for members of my social circle to have been married 30 or more years, with kids who are happily married.
Analyze that, misfit.
The subject was your GENERATION, not you social circle.
> Analyze that, misfit.
Ok; you are spiritually useless because you have no love/charity.
1 Cor 13
Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. For we know in part, and we prophesy in part. But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known. And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
“As you’ve demonstrated - you can’t answer the question either.”
It’s not a matter of “can’t”, it’s a matter of “won’t”. I have no interest in being sidetracked to answer some question that has nothing to do with what we were discussing, just because you want to change the subject.
Boo, fricken, who.
It’s always somebody else’s fault with you rejects.
You make decisions - DEAL WITH IT.
>>It’s not a matter of “can’t”, it’s a matter of “won’t”.
Liar.
> Boo, fricken, who.
> It’s always somebody else’s fault with you rejects.
You are the one that said they weren’t raised properly (”Guess your quivering peers didn’t have those sort of role models.”), doesn’t that mean you actually agree that it *IS* somebody else’s fault?
Interesting, also, that you include me in the “rejects”.
> You make decisions - DEAL WITH IT.
Interesting, I’ve not really said anything about my own decisions on this thread, except that I am abstinent.
What part of abstinence are you against?
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