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"We do have a very good sex life": Gay men with straight wives are coming out - as happily married
Salon ^
| 4/19/2015
| Tracy Clark-Flory
Posted on 04/20/2015 8:11:24 AM PDT by NetAddicted
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To: Jonty30
See that... we had a language/definition barrier.
To: married21
A drug. It helps you sleep.
It’s often used as a rape drug.
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:03:05 AM PDT
by
Jonty30
(What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
To: momtothree
I think everyone is aware of this sort of classification, even if they have it defined differently.
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:05:09 AM PDT
by
Jonty30
(What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
To: Jonty30
Does that mean he learned to be hetero with his wife? That flies in the face of the popular psychobabble du jur that claims the preference is genetic, not cultural.
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:07:23 AM PDT
by
pfflier
To: CptnObvious
Herod the Great had maggots infesting his penis and this is not the only damage foreign organisms can do.
Huh. That must be why they call a “zipper” a fly.
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:14:05 AM PDT
by
saleman
(?)
To: pfflier
From what I can tell, sexual experience does have huge effect on the direction one takes. This man, if he’s telling the truth about not having had any actual homosexual experiences, he’s learned to associate sexual activity only in a heterosexual context, so there’s a good chance that he will not act out on his desire.
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:18:56 AM PDT
by
Jonty30
(What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
To: dfwgator
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:22:06 AM PDT
by
Puppage
(You may disagree with what I have to say, but I shall defend to your death my right to say it)
To: NetAddicted
I never believed that homosexuals were acting on actual sexual attraction. I always thought it was primarily an emotional attraction, with the sexual component being a part of the emotional attraction, because we are sexual beings.
To: JudyinCanada
I’d say so. Look at what happens with straight men, when they aren’t being emotionally fed by their wives. A lot of porn is consumed because men are lonely within their marriages.
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:25:08 AM PDT
by
Jonty30
(What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
To: Jonty30; momtothree
Alpha males tend to be the guys who are bigger and stronger than other males. More precisely, alpha males are the ones which lots of women want to have sex with. Mick Jagger (in his prime), for example, was not "bigger and stronger" than other males, but he was very definitely an alpha.
Beta males are the ones that women "settle" for, when it becomes evident that none of the alpha males who she slept with displayed any interest in actually marrying her. Betas are good providers, but unexciting.
With Alpha males, it is just easier to go through a succession of bed-warmers than to go through the trouble and struggle of maintaining a relationship with any particular woman. One of my college friends comes to mind: tall, handsome, intelligent -- all the girls wanted him. I was catching up with him a year ago. He never married.
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:33:01 AM PDT
by
PapaBear3625
(You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
To: PapaBear3625
More precisely, alpha males are the ones which lots of women want to have sex with. Mick Jagger (in his prime), for example, was not "bigger and stronger" than other males, but he was very definitely an alpha. Even black people go, "He got some big-ass lips." - Eddie Murphy
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posted on
04/20/2015 9:36:30 AM PDT
by
dfwgator
To: NetAddicted
These are people with "mental porn" problems. They are functional heterosexuals, but have "lust in their heart" issues. When their sex lives become boring after many years of marriage, they blame it on their fantasy gay life, which they don't want to abandon or renounce, even though it is essentially adultery. They think they can redefine their sin and make it more "special" than ordinary sin by surrounding it with fancy verbiage.
A word of advice: Don't mess with Mr. In-Between.
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posted on
04/20/2015 10:27:17 AM PDT
by
Albion Wilde
(The greatest danger facing our world: the marriage of militant Islam with nuclear weapons.-Netanyahu)
To: CatherineofAragon
"Being a beta male usually means... you can develop a better and a deeper marriage than most other people." I'm sorry. I would respond in depth, but this fit of laughter is about to incapacitate me.
Your comment made me LOL!!!
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posted on
04/20/2015 10:31:48 AM PDT
by
Albion Wilde
(The greatest danger facing our world: the marriage of militant Islam with nuclear weapons.-Netanyahu)
To: PapaBear3625
I tend to agree with you. A beta male, who has a prodigious amount of talent in an area, that can lead to a lot of wealth creation will become more desirable. Many of the notable scientists and authors, like Einstein and Huxley, were notorious womanizers.
I also agree with you that many of the attractive males tend towards unstable relationships because they’ve don’t have to learn how to please their partner because there is always another one around the corner.
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posted on
04/20/2015 11:22:06 AM PDT
by
Jonty30
(What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
To: Resolute Conservative
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posted on
04/20/2015 11:29:38 AM PDT
by
Mrs. Don-o
(We grow too soon old, and too late smart. - German proverb)
To: SauronOfMordor; olepap; Resolute Conservative; pepsionice; V_TWIN
"Weed, who has never had sex with a man, insists that his sex life with his wife is fulfilling" This is a guy who exclusively has sex with his wife. What's wrong with that?
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posted on
04/20/2015 11:34:42 AM PDT
by
Mrs. Don-o
(We grow too soon old, and too late smart. - German proverb)
To: CGASMIA68
From the article:
"Weed, who has never had sex with a man, insists that his sex life with his wife is fulfilling" The only person he's had sex with, is his wife. How would she be exposed to AIDS?
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posted on
04/20/2015 11:36:27 AM PDT
by
Mrs. Don-o
(We grow too soon old, and too late smart. - German proverb)
To: married21
It’s a party drug somewhere between Ecstasy and morphene.
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posted on
04/20/2015 11:36:50 AM PDT
by
struggle
To: Mrs. Don-o
if he hasn’t had sex with another male he’s not gay he’s Bi..If he said he’s gay and did not have sex with men he’s full of crap and she needs to unload him as he is very f’ed up in the head.
To: Resolute Conservative
"How many adult self-identified gay men have not had queer sex? " He's one.
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posted on
04/20/2015 11:41:06 AM PDT
by
Mrs. Don-o
(We grow too soon old, and too late smart. - German proverb)
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