I recently had a woman in her early 60’s come to me for help with her extreme anger problems.
We did a little work and it was easy to determine that her anger began with her father when she was in her mother’s womb. Her mother was angry with her father and a child in the womb cannot differentiate between their own experiences and their mother’s experiences.
She grew up hating her father.
The number one attraction in relationships is that you are attracted toward individuals whose personality is similar to someone with whom you have unresolved conflict. It’s the souls way of providing an opportunity to heal wounds.
Unfortunately, the resolution opportunity became a reinforcement opportunity and she divorced her husband with even more intense anger.
As is often the case, she remarried a man who was an absolutely feminine wimp, the exact opposite of her father and husband as he was safe and didn’t rouse her anger.
Now her anger surfaced again. She is a liberal Democrat and HATES TRUMP with a passion. I could see her rage forming when she talked about Trump.
That’s why she was experiencing all the intense anger. It was her projection of her unresolved anger with her father onto Trump. She was very emotional and irrational about him.
I think this is true for a lot of single women. They have anger at ex’s and project it on Trump.
She grew up hating her father.The number one attraction in relationships is that you are attracted toward individuals whose personality is similar to someone with whom you have unresolved conflict. It’s the souls way of providing an opportunity to heal wounds.
Unfortunately, the resolution opportunity became a reinforcement opportunity and she divorced her husband with even more intense anger.
Interesting.
(hiding behind interwebz pseudonym here). Dearest Wifey has unresolved father issues. I've always thought I inherited a lot of that, even though I'm not like him. (The schizophrenia doesn't help either.)
You said a mouthful!
That and half of them are barking mad.