“...one who doesn’t want to lead or be a leader but will do so because you feel a sense of obligation to do the right thing.”
I had to laugh as you triggered a memory. I had just wrapped up a meeting. I was exhausted. A whiny guy who never contributed anything said, “Why are you always the leader?” I sighed and said, “You want to lead? I’ll keep the minutes and maintain the action register and you set the agenda.” It looked as if he delated. He made some huffy noises and left. The female coworker said, “Okay, now that was hilarious.”
Good story. Thx.