Non surprise.
Sanity is like pregnancy, you either are or not. There is little in between.
Once “we” gave them the green light to believe in unreality the limits of their gender are only constrained by their imagination.
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“The oyster is a confusing suitor
It’s masculine and feminine and even neuter
But whether husband, pal, or wife
It leads a painless sort of life.”
— Ogden Nash