My ex wife was an abuser.
The stigma of being an abused husband is a terrible cross to bear.
Nobody believes that the sweet little woman that you married is indeed a monster.
Most men (like me) just keep it to themselves, rather than try to explain it to others.
Just get the hell out and get away.
Let her have as much as she wants.
Just get your sanity back
My brother had the misfortune to marry two such women.