Jesus told you NOT to judge. You’re mistranslating that passage, it’s supposed to be DISCERN. But judgementalist church lady Marthas like you stick to your guns and your religion so that you can be in a position to judge others, hence you hold up folks from getting into heaven because they don’t want anything to do with such a judgemental God as you propose. Your God is too small. And you will be held accountable by the same pressed-down measure.
I call out abuse and evil and lies when I see it. Not like I am so great but as a witness and to protect myself and others. Do you not know that the saints will judge the world ?
I think a problem you are having is imagining judging to be always equivalent to hypocritically haranguing people about exaggerated or imagined offenses. That is not righteous judging.
And I am not keeping anyone from heaven. I have no desire to and if I did I am not that powerful.