You do have a point. However people like Cuomo often ignore reality to lash out when aggrieved. This is a disturbed troubled man. He is a cuckold or as Italians call him a cornuto. A cornuto is particularly repulsive when he does nothing to redeem his honor. Cuomo never confronted the man who seduced his wife. Instead he vented his shame and anger by bullying others and abusing vulnerable women. This was the only course available to him since he did not have the courage or will to deal with his wife or her lover. Italians view such a man as an agitated wimp who can never be trusted. Cuomo is a man with no honor.
Spot on, thank you for your cultural lesson.