“Leading with a jab is a poor way to do that. A handshake works better if one is new and trying to fit in.”
I wasn’t trying to fit in, merely expressing my opinion.
Many here won't care about your opinion if you have no interest in becoming a member of the community in good standing.
If you don't want to fit in, then you don't want to be here, you only want to agitate those of us who do want to be here.
-PJ