My son, TJ, is an 18-year old freshman in college. He works 34-40 hours a week while going to school full time. Honor student, speaks multiple languages, plays chess, guitar, violin, football, and golf. He's won multiple academic events, including going to State for Academic Decathlon. When he's not at school or working, he's helping around the house. Overall, truly great kid. He has a shepherd's spirit; he's a protector, and committed to the Lord. He took a vow to remain chaste until marriage.
A few days ago, he was at his job when a young couple came into the store. TJ knew the young man (TJ had replaced him) and they engaged in small talk. The young lady was wearing a shirt with the Metallica Ride The Lightning album cover on it. TJ loves Metallica, so he commented, “Cool shirt. What's your favorite song?”
The girl freaked out. “Don't talk to me! I don't know you! You could be a pedophile freak or something!”
TJ is a good-looking, clean cut, honorable young man who would never even consider doing something this vile. He was so mortified, he left the area. Behind him, he could hear the friend, and several mutual friends gathered around them, trying to assure the girl that TJ was a good guy and she shouldn't have reacted that way. He immediately told his supervisors so that they would know what happened. They were shocked.
My son was shaking when he recounted this to me. I was ready to track this creature down and tear her apart.
Meanwhile, he had just starting dating a young woman after connecting on line. On the first date, she grabbed his face and kissed him, grabbed at his privates, and rubbed herself against him.
He is a virgin and was not prepared for it. He hadn't even kissed a girl up to that point. He's looking for Ms. Right, not Ms. Right Now, and talked to my husband about it. Dad told him to be wary of a girl who's ready to move so fast. He ended it.
I am praying that God will bring the right girl into his life, and they will both know it when they meet.
Honestly, where have all the good, normal, honorable girls gone? Are loose and psychotic the only options now? No wonder men are going MGTOW.
“Meanwhile, he had just starting dating a young woman after connecting on line. On the first date, she grabbed his face and kissed him, grabbed at his privates, and rubbed herself against him.”
She’ll probably accuse him of rape or fathering her kid.
Just sent a prayer that your son will meet the right girl.