[mountn man]

Not I. I’m happily married to a man who considers my feelings, just as I am considerate of his.

And yet you said:
but knowing how we women tend to put up with a lot, before the straw breaks the camel’s back,

[Flaming Conservative]

Speaking for women as a whole, yes. Men are usually blindsided when their wives leave them. They often don’t have a clue how their wives feel. That’s common knowledge.