“But it’s interesting how when women do it, it’s feminism and evil and destroying (fill in the blank) but when men do it, it’s justified.”
You don’t completely understand what you are talking about. The MGTOW approach is often simply staying away from women—not bedding them at all. There are some that do sleep around without commitment, but that is a definite minority.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Going_Their_Own_Way
Feminists are either gay or heterosexual women who seek to dominate and use men—without exception.
I’ve done some research on the red pill concept and there are two observations I have.
One is that anyone could really have seen this coming if they had thought about it. The kind of extreme feminist that the feminist movement has engendered was eventually get some blowback. IMO, the MGTOW/Red Pill movement was inevitable when men got sick of the status quo.
That’s what happened in the feminist movement. The first few things the feminists were for were reasonable. Then the movement morphed into what it is today.
That said, that is EXACTLY what is going to happen to the MGTOW/Red Pill movement. It WILL follow the same path and that person (I refuse to give the honor of calling a FReeper) who signed up and advocated the kind of nonsense he did and got rightly banned for, is where that movement is heading to.
There will be those in the movement to keep pushing the limits and will take it to the extreme, just as happened with the feminist movement.
I found this article from Business Insider which seems pretty balanced.
Inside Red Pill, The Weird New Cult For Men Who Don’t Understand Women
http://www.businessinsider.com/the-red-pill-reddit-2013-8