[arthurus]

For a man with prospects of prosperity getting married is a huge risk. One day he may well come from a hard day at the office and find out he owns nothing, owes $80K in credit card bills he didn’t know he had and doesn’t have 3 children any more and, of course, no wife, the front door lock is changed and a process server hands him a summons. No. I haven’t been there but two old friends have been through variations of that particular mill.

[cherry]

truth is, women are outnumbering men in college...women are getting into better paying jobs and in many marriages, the wife makes more than the husband....

so its a risk to her as well, maybe even more so...