>Understanding ‘why’ women rebel against this submission you speak of is necessary in understanding a womans framework.
Women rebel because they’re testing for strength. The problem for men is it’s no longer legal to rule over a woman in the traditional manner. Most men have to resort to being willing to leave if she doesn’t behavior properly which isn’t a good foundation for a marriage. The best solution to this issue is for the community of believers to reject women who rebel against their Husbands. Social pressure is very effective.
...”It’s no longer legal to rule over a woman in the traditional manner....Most men have to resort to being willing to leave if she doesn’t behavior properly.....
Your choice of words certainly doesn’t indicate you understood my point.....it’s in a woman’s nature to sense her lose of equality she once had....it’s simply there and part of her nature from the fall.
If a husband is domineering she’s going to ‘naturally’ rebel against this....her desire is to be an ‘equal partner’ in a marriage....has nothing to do with her “behavior” as if she’s a child and needs discipline.
And btw...God never told the woman to “love’ her husband....he told the man that.....a woman was called to “respect” her husband and that sir..is earned. ..it is impossible for a woman to love a man she does not respect.... At best it will be a brother sister type relationship, tolerable but certainly not the loving relationship God designed it to be between a man and women.
IOW, it's not legal to beat your wife any more.
And that's not a good foundation for a marriage either.
The best solution to this issue is for the community of believers to reject women who rebel against their Husbands. Social pressure is very effective.
And for men who abuse their wives, they get what?
Honestly, a man who lovingly leads is not going to have the rebellion issues. And if he does, it behooves him to find out why she's feeling that way and *gasp* maybe even CHANGE something he's doing.
But to further beat her over the head to force submission is only going to make matters worse.
Women don't like to feel like they are being treated as property instead of equals.
A wife is MARRIED, not bought. It was a marriage license they signed, not a bill of sale.
Rebellion is an indicator that something is wrong in the relationship and it's not always the woman's fault.