I got remarried to a woman from the Philippines. She was working abroad and had been for many years. She had almost no money because she was generous to her family and put their needs first. As my wife she is modest, dedicated to our son, a good homemaker and much less argumentative than the typical American woman.
Oh yeah, her prior experience with other men was practically zero. She brought zero baggage from her past. Sadly I am divorced and cannot say the same. A woman who sleeps around is defiled. That’s from the pastor’s sermon today. The red pill guys will point to studies and say it messes up a woman’s ability to pair bond. Yet it doesn’t for men. Maybe because men compartmentalize, for better or for worse.
Anyways I am happy to have a modest woman without any prior baggage. She was in her late 30s when we met. I simply think it would be near impossible to find such a woman here: There are so few of them I suspect that the odds of such a woman liking a grumpy dude like me back are slim, lol.
And men wonder why feminism took hold.
It's OK for men to sleep around before marriage but the woman has to be pure cause he doesn't want used goods?
Sex before marriage defiles a man as well. A woman is just as entitled to marry a pure man, a virgin, as he is and the double standard men have is a LARGE part of the problem between men and women.
Women are not blind to it or stupid. They just decided they didn't want to put up with it any more.
See you hit on a key point. Argumentative.
Too many women, everything no matter how small, is a debate. An argument. This is the crap that drives men away. Everything is a battle. They just can’t help themselves. They butt into the chores and work that are the man’s purvue. He is the head of the house. If they want to be the head of the house, they need to be single and they can be in charge of their own house.
Women are the MAN’s help-mete. Not the other way round. God made woman for man as a help-mete. Not to be duelling captains. Look how well two captains work. It works so well, we send out every ship with two captains. Our two presidents system is a model for all countries everywhere. And what do we say about the Roman Cathlic Churches Two Popes?
in case you didn’t get the sarcasm, ... the above is sarcasm.
>The red pill guys will point to studies and say it messes up a woman’s ability to pair bond. Yet it doesn’t for men. Maybe because men compartmentalize, for better or for worse.
It does mess up men as well but it’s a 4-5 to 1 ratio compared to women. A guy has to sleep with 4-5 different women to do the same damage to pair bonding that a women sleeping with 1 other guy would cause.
I know a guy who was a big tall body builder who slept with a different girl every few weeks. He probably racked up 60 women before he got married. Predictably he hasn’t pair bonded well with his wife or child very well and really hates his marriage. That’s the other bad thing about sleeping around, it harms your ability to pair bond with your children.