Wait on me hand and foot is used as an idiom here, not a literal slave. Leave it up to a woman to not see that.
The idiom is expressing the desire a man has for a woman who puts him first. Instead of constantly competing with him and tying to be in charge. Simply that.
If the woman wants to be in charge she needs to stay single. Then she can have total control over everything and be totally responsible for everything. Guys do not want to be in constant battle and competition with a mate.
Metmom doesn’t get it. She needs to make each of us a sammich, shrink wrap it and send them to us UPS.
>>>If the woman wants to be in charge she needs to stay single. Then she can have total control over everything and be totally responsible for everything. Guys do not want to be in constant battle and competition with a mate.<<<
Read some dating profiles from women in their 30s. They yap about their careers. They yap about their exotic vacations to some far point on the globe. They yap about their education. What they didn’t do very often imho, is sell themselves on why they would be an asset to a guy’s life. But women bragging about their careers and education probably will be more argumentative than those that do not. Just my opinion.