I will never be truly happy because my husband is an unorganized pack rat and I prefer space and organization. When I heard of a Hollywood couple that had separate but attached houses I was quite jealous. Of course, that would require an income we are nowhere near ever acquiring :)
If I try to get my husband to get rid of, or even organize his stuff, he gets anxious. He’s probably not a true hoarder; certainly not to the degree one sees on T.V., but we live in a very tiny house, and there’s no place to put everything. Although, I know some people who are so organized, they probably could make sense of it. He’d still have a cow, though. And did I mention we’re both lazy, to boot?