A friend of mine went through that sort of thing and ended up in counseling with his wife. She saw the first counseling session as her chance to talk, so she began unloading with criticisms and complaints from when they met in college. After several minutes of this and not being allowed to say anything back as the rules of the counselor specified, my friend got up and announced that he was going outside for a smoke and to let him know when his wife got up to anything in the last year or two. That of course caused an uproar and, after another session or two, the counselor recommended that they get divorced, which they did.
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This thread is comedy gold, just as I expected.
"...and that's when the fight started."