Reason and accountability.
From “As Good As It Gets” https://setiorganization.wordpress.com/2009/05/29/as-good-as-it-gets-jack-nicholson-how-do-you-write-women-so-well-nicholson-responds-i-think-of-a-man-and-i-take-away-reason-and-accountability/
Receptionist:
“How do you write women so well?”
Melvin Udall (played by Jack Nicholson):
“I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.”
Best movie line, ever (because it’s true).